Im confused and need help asap

[ConfusedSheikra]

I need help...

ok so i work with this girl, shes the same age as me and we share alot of interests and i find her very attractive, however my problem is her she seems to be very flirty iam confused as to whether she actually likes me or is just being herself... in work she compliments me on my body etc. while assesing what my type is and everything else. She even sought my phone number out from a co worker however she only texts me after I text her.

Is there anyway to determine if she actually does like me or is jus being polite??

[Rollerderby]

I think you should make an assertive move in asking her to do something. That's the best way to tell.

[lastwish]

Even serial flirts flirt with the people they like. So, she is interested.

[padlock]

She even sought my phone number out from a co worker however she only texts me after I text her.

The very next text you send should be to ask her out.

[ecojeanne]

don't be afraid, she likes you dammit, she went to the trouble of getting your number, go get her tiger rawr!

[Mish]

I don't know, it's hard to tell. Compliments on your body and asking for your phone number can indeed be misleading.
Has she stripped naked in front of you yet? That might be a good hint that she might like you.

[ConfusedSheikra]

Even serial flirts flirt with the people they like. So, she is interested.

Im not too sure about her though i think its generally just herself and i could be reading into this far too much... I would not want to ruin our friendship and make a fool outta myself...Is there anyway to decisively know her intentions???

[Man4U]

Ask her out on a friendly date, that's the only way you'll get to know her better and would know her intentions for flirting with you. She is complementing you with your looks, and is one way of letting you know that she likes you. If you'd take this as a natural thing for her - are you saying that she's normally a flirt? If this is how you see things... are you sure that you wanted to date a girl who flirts with every man she meets?

[Cain]

Why are people so afraid to make a move? You aren't just her friend if you have more than friendship feelings. So what if the friendship ends? You can have plenty of friends.

[ConfusedSheikra]

Why are people so afraid to make a move? You aren't just her friend if you have more than friendship feelings. So what if the friendship ends? You can have plenty of friends.

its not that im afraid to make a move, i would just rather be 100% before making a move and making a fool out of myself... is there anything i can be certain of? how can i make sure of her feelings???

[Mish]

Why are people so afraid to make a move? You aren't just her friend if you have more than friendship feelings. So what if the friendship ends? You can have plenty of friends.

Loosing a close friend, especially one familiar with your past and history that you get on well with can be a scary thought.