Any idea?

[love-idiot]

I have been in love with a girl, A for quite sometime now.. A has some bad experience from her previous relationship and she is a bit cautious before starting another relationship.

And I have been trying to stay by her side.... whenever she needs help (no matter work related or personal issues) and trying to help her to resolve her issues.

Anyway, we manage to go out for dinner and movie a every now and then. Plus sometimes she took the initiative to asked me out.

As our 'relationship' progress.... every now and then she will take the initiative to talk to me (via msn) and sometimes i will as well even though is just a short message due to our busy work schedule.

Sometimes she will tell me about her day at work also about her plans as well... and seek for my opinion. Once she even told me that I am her 'support pillar'.

Long story short... I am just wondering does this means she has feelings for me or she just treat me as good friend. OR may be i think too much.

[Doc Durian]

Sounds like you're the last guy who's ever going to get to tap it.

You can't just be her pillar if you want to pitch a tent with her...

You need to invest some hardcore male game play in this. She'll have you trimming cuticles and painting her toenails if you don't. And you won't have the heart to say no.

Try the secret admirer angle/spiderman angle. It gets their minds reconciled with the unfathomable.