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Thread: he strayed away from me... but i got him back

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    he strayed away from me... but i got him back

    my husband cheated on me. We are Still together and we are patching things up.

    here's my story- About a year ago I find my husband of 4 years kissing a close friend of mine. I confronted him and he admitted that he had slept with her. He swore it was just a moment of weakness and that he was messed up because we were having a lot of problems. Of course I was devastated, I never in my entire life had I felt such pain and betrayal. I went Into a mad fury and swore that I'd hurt him back, I felt like I was going crazy, everyday I found myself in tears, I couldn't function properly. I could tell that my husband was sorry for what he had done, and he was trying to make it up to me but we were still having problems. It was a slow and painful process of healing i think the many arguments and accusations that followed both caused us pain, but slowly we are getting through it.

    Right now we are in the process of trying to fall in love all over again. I know a lot of people would say such a betrayal should never be forgiven but i wanted to see if after all our relationship was worth saving...

    And well. I’m finding that it is.

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    Sorry doll... there's a saying: once a cheater always a cheater.

    I hope for you, the saying is wrong, but I wouldn't hold my breath.

    Good luck.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    Your husband cheated on you and you are still together. How dumb are you?
    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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