So there is a man in my life i have casual sex with...im not sure its just a 'booty call' (perhaps im not clear on the definition)....when im over his place i spend the night, when he's over mine he spends the night, we watch movies, we kiss hello and goodbye...but there are no dates. We DID date briefly, about 5 yrs ago when we first met...ever since then he's kinda been my 'in between' guy - when my relationships ended, we would start hooking up again. We've just started up again and lately i've started to feel guilty about our 'situation'. im sure he's happy to get what he's getting - but most of the time i think he sticks around hoping for more. But then i think, he's a man - isnt this situation perfect for him?
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17-08-09, 06:22 AM #1
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Stringing him along? Thoughts please...
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17-08-09, 07:42 AM #2
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If he's happy about it and it's not a problem for you why worry about it? Just make sure he knows exactly where your coming from and knows the relationship can only go so far.
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17-08-09, 08:40 AM #3
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The main question, is the situation perfect for you?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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17-08-09, 09:12 AM #4
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it really is...he's not someone i'd consider having a relationship with, but i am attracted to him, so it works for me.
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17-08-09, 09:13 AM #5
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Well then, if both of you are happy then keep going. If there are any questions and you are unsure, talk to him.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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