my girlfriend has never had an orgasm! HELP!

[xebra11]

Hello everyone,

i have been with my girlfriend for the past few months and we actively have sex. she wasn't a virgin when we met, she has had sex before. but she doesn't orgasm. she has never had an orgasm. i am good with women and know how to bring them to orgasm. and every time i bring her close, she asks me to stop.. and says it hurts. i think she is holding it in and doesn't let it happen. she has told me that she doesn't masturbate either. so at this point, i don't know what to do.. we have sex for hours at times and she just never comes, she gets close and then she just let's go.. i don't know what to do and how to help her. i want her to experience this.

ladies, please help!!! what can i do? what can she do???

[SammyLC]

Why the haste? why the rush to bring her to orgasm? Have you considered that maybe she is not as concerned about getting an orgasm as you are? Your prowess as a man able to give women orgasms is admirable but it should not be held as a trophy and a goal for your girlfriend to reach. She already may be feeling anxious or frustrated by being unable to have an orgasm without added pressure from you. Instead, calm down and allow her to relax then when she feels totally ready to let go of any hang ups or stress she may get one when she least expects it. Marathan sex for hours certainly will not get you your desired result so put her needs first and just chill out until her body's ready. Every woman is differnt so treat her accordingly please.

[moonfairy_2002]

every woman is different. some cum vaginally, through clitoral stimulation or both. Try doing something different then what youve been doing. get some ideas from books or these boards. Just not porn!

[Gigabitch]

She doesn't masturbate? Won't let herself orgasm?

Dude, run for the hills. This bitch is nuts.

[moonfairy_2002]

She doesn't masturbate? Won't let herself orgasm?

Dude, run for the hills. This bitch is nuts.

LMAO!!!

funny!

[VioletB]

Well if she's truly NEVER had one, then I guess she doesn't know what she's missing. Having marathon sex is not the answer... if you're just pounding away at a woman and she's not into it, that can actually annoy a chick to the point that she'll fake one. The length of time doesn't matter, and every woman likes something different. But the most important thing for a woman, is she has to be mentally into it. Even if a woman is just masturbating, she's got to go someplace special in her head to get off. It's not a knee jerk physical reaction like it seems to be for men. We have to focus on it, even if just for a split second.

[moonfairy_2002]

Her problem is that she doesnt masturbate. How can someone else know how to please you, when you dont know how to please yourself!