I've been with my gf for many years now (10) and we've talked about the whole engagement thing for several months and we had agreed on me proposing before the new year. I messed up and I don't have a ring for her. I told her and understandably she is very mad, sad, disappointed, let down, etc. She says that even if I do get a ring now that it wouldn't matter and she needs to think things over (ie. if she wants to wait for me any longer as she has waited for 10 years and I still can't come up with a ring to show her that I am committed). I am committed to her and can't imagine spending the rest of my life without her but I simply messed up and didn't prioritize getting the ring.
She is not the materialistic type at all, but it comes down to me not putting in the effort to get her the ring.
So the big question now is what I can do to right what I've wronged. Should I still proceed to get the ring as early as possible or would that backfire?
ANY input is greatly appreciated! Thanks!