Big crush

[Loved]

Hello,

I have a big crush on a neighbor.
I always felt like he was checking me out because I could see him looking at me
everytime we saw each other. I never took it seriously or said anything to him because I I was involved with
someone else and I did not have the time or energy to put myself in an akward situation. I can also blame
this on my hormones too!
Well I always avoided looking at him in the eye; I will only talk to him if we were close to each other.

I broke up with my boyfriend in september. Those last couples of weeks, I have started feeling
something strong for this neighbor. I have never had that kind of crush on anyone and I feel like I have to take my chances
and try to talk to him. I saw him last week, when he saw me coming, he turned arround. I was on the phone, I said smiled and said "hello". He replied and I kept on walking since I was on the phone.
Not sure what my next move should be...

Because:
- I am not sure how to approach him since we never talked.I have never pursued a man before. Always the other way around. What should I say?
- I do not see him that often and I am getting very impatient and anxious. Shoud I create more opportunities to see him? I can't stalk him either?
- since I am not sure how I started to like him, I feel like I have to figure out why I am feeling a certain way.
The only way I can think of is to get to know him?

[Loved]

I want this feeling to either go away or something to happen because it is stressing me out!

[TheWizard]

you guys are neighbors and valentines day is coming up - I'm sure you can come up with something creative to show your interest. That's really all you need to do. If someone came to my door on valentines day with like a food basket and a wonderful smile on her face all that would matter at that point is if I was into her or not.

[reeges]

breathe deep and take the plunge. when its over the worst that will have happened is you made him notice you.

[Elle_Boogie]

Just keep trying to run into him outside, and if you're really feeling feisty---ask him to do something manly. Have him help you lift something heavy at your place, check the oil in your car, or fix a light bulb. Or, just work up the balls to say, "We should chill sometime".