And I'm sucked back in again...

[LailaK]

Remember that guy I told you I liked. The one that I went on one fabulous date with, who didn't ask me out again. The one who emails me and then drops off the face of the earth for a week. Well, I figured he didn't like me so I let it fizzle. I didn't want to be that girl mooning over the guy who doesn't like her.

Well he emailed me again, out of the blue. And in his Facebook pictures he looks SO GOOD. I'm thinking of writing him back mostly because I want to tear his clothing off and ride him like a horse.

I mean what do I have to lose? Right?

I'm in serious danger of being sucked back into his game. Again.

[Mish]

Is this the Italian guy that you were attracted to physically but found incredibly boring and he disliked your sense of humour, which made you decide he's not it?

[LailaK]

No... this is someone else.

I went on another date with the Italian. I like him. There just aren't any sparks. I'm trying to give him a chance though.

[starbuck]

Regarding hot Facebook guy, I'd say go for it if you just want a booty call and nothing else.

If not, then I'd expect a little more consistency from him first. Email him and see how long it takes him to email you back. Or ask him to call you and see if he follows through. How long ago was your first date?

[sookie6]

If not, then I'd expect a little more consistency from him first. Email him and see how long it takes him to email you back. Or ask him to call you and see if he follows through. How long ago was your first date?

Yes if you fancy his pants it'd be a shame to jump into physical only.

See if there is no other potential just like Starbick said

[LailaK]

Yea, I want him around for more than just a roll in the hay.

I emailed him and he wrote me back right away. He's so hot and cold it drives me nuts. We'll see what happens.

[the_robot]

I want to tear his clothing off and ride him like a horse.

LOL. I didn't see that coming.

[Gigabitch]

Keep your head, Lalia. He's shown you he's not boyfriend material. He's roll in the hay material.

[LailaK]

Yessssssssss. I know the risks. I know what I would advise myself to do. He's just so tasty.

I got tired of his games so I sent him a note asking him why he's not asking me out. If it scares him away, good. If it lights a fire under his lame-o arse, good. At least I'll have my answer

[Asip4u]

I like that direct approach. Good luck Laila.

[LailaK]

Direct approach, indirect results. This guy must be a pro at confusing women.

Ugh, you were right Gigi, he is not the one and I am not the dumb b***h who will wait around while he does whatever it is that is so important he can email me but not see me in person.

I suspect he has a girlfriend, or worse, is married with a bambino on the way.

[cmacattack1]

There has to be plenty of other guys out there that you probably want to ride like a horse. I thought I was sexually frustrated..