my situation

[Cloud206]

I wonder if we can remain friends with ppl like this.

L.E. Sorry for double post..clicked stopped but i guess didn't work.

[daydreamin420]

At least you found out before you invested anymore of your time, effort or energy.

[AnastasiaRose]

It kinda difficult for me to be friends after what he did...and we both made it clear we don't want each other in our lives.

Thanks for all your help!

[Cloud206]

As daydream said,better to find out as soon as u can rather than way late and feel like u wasted a big part of your life.

[AnastasiaRose]

Yeah I agree... but he's the one who ended it.

I know I shouldn't blame myself for not making conversation because he's as much to blame as I am. Maybe if he wasn't with other girls while he was with me and he put the effort in but you can't change a person no matter how much you try and you wouldn't want to be with a cheater or a liar anyway.

I finding it extremely difficult to clear my head of him and it seems like it's impossible to get over him I hope I can.

Thanks you everyone for the advice and trying to help me move past this.

[cmacattack1]

It's so easy to point the finger at him because he is the one that ended it.

Wouldn't you say it's probably a good thing that he did? What have you got to be angry about now if he's helping you to grow as a person?

[AnastasiaRose]

I am angry at him becuase he broke my heart, played games/lead me on.

It is probably a good thing he did end it because he can't take responsibility for his actions and has al ot of growing up up to do with how he treats people.

He doesn't understand how emotional women are and it takes us awhile to move on from that particular situation. But i'll make it...thanks again for your help everyone in advance.

[Kaius]

You are spending way too much energy being mad and investigating about him and all that stuff.
Just move on and pretend he never existed. He is bad for you. He isn't even worth your hate.
Every moment you spend thinking about him, is a moment wasted and never recoverable.
Just stop.

[gshan12]

I just can't believe he'd do all this and cut me loose without any explanation and at times he's ignore me too. I did nothing to deserve this... I was always there for him and he was never there for me. Everything was fine between us and it looked like it was going well and this came out of nowhere - I don't understand guys.

[AnastasiaRose]

like i said i am trying to forget him but it's difficult.