Ok. I have recently met a girl I really like. She seemed equally interested in me the whole time. Now she is bailing on dates with excuses..
Thursday night: were meant to go out at night. I get a text halfway through the day saying "hey sorry I dont think I can do tonight, probably going to be held back at work". Then 10 minutes later on facebook her housemate(I happen to be her friend on facebook..) says to her "can't wait for shopping tonight!" then she replies "me neither!"
tonight we are supposed to hang out: I get a text about how she is so sick, cant even hold down water. I don't accuse her of lying or whatever and say, "that sucks..we dont have to hang tonight if your feeling bad." then 5 hours later she replies to my text "I shouldnt have drunk so much last night. I really wanted to hang . maybe tomorrow we can hang? "
Anyway. I have been mind f*cked two or three times in the past year by girls, and just dont know what to think anymore. I still havent replied to her text about whether or not to hang with her tomorrow.
How do I reply without looking desperate or without looking like I dont care..?
Any advice is appreciated.
Thankyou.
Luke