Ok so I've asked several times. (we are away from each other for the time being)
and I think being in an open relationship would be good, but only for the time he is away.
I can handle him touching other women, but somehow I think he is scared and insecure about other men touching me?
any thoughts guys?
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20-05-10, 09:11 AM #1
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Why won't my husband agree to an open relationship?
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20-05-10, 09:15 AM #2
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Yea I would have a major problem with that...I'm a one woman kinda guy and I expect her to stick with me...I mean they make plenty of toys for women.
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20-05-10, 09:18 AM #3
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Well since I don't know what he does over there I suggested the open relationship.
And I get so lonely here sometimes, I'm sure he does too since we were with each other almost everyday.
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20-05-10, 09:22 AM #4
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Where is over there? Afghanistan? He won't be getting much "action" there.
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20-05-10, 09:23 AM #5
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Korea.............I'm sure he can get as much as he would like
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20-05-10, 09:42 AM #6
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He can also get a stellar case of crotch rot over there depending on the company he pursues....my friend is in the navy...I've heard stories.
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Seriously...I know its hard and you may get lonely but I think you'd be better off to masturbate and then surround yourself with friends and family. In the long run it will be better. Sometimes those things sounds like a good idea but in the end somebody will get hurt. I'm far to jealous to share my woman.Completely baffled by a backward indication
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20-05-10, 09:48 AM #7
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Isn't this the guy who has already been seeing someone over there?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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It is sad that we can actually keep track! HAHAHAHA!!!! Don't worry, Vashti- I thought that, too!
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20-05-10, 09:55 AM #9
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yup, so I dont see why he wont want to be in an open relationship anyway. He must think I'm gonna fall in love with someone else or something
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20-05-10, 09:59 AM #10
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I forgot about that but now that you mention it your right...he was the guy kissin a Korean girl.
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20-05-10, 10:08 AM #11
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OHHHHH.... so he is just wanting the best of both worlds, huh? I really don't think that it means he cares- if he did he would be thinking of your feelings- he is only considering his and he doesn't want to give up anything that he has claimed is all. He wants someone to meet his needs wherever he may be. If you start seeing others on the side, the guarantee that you will be there waiting for his return is at jeopardy.
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20-05-10, 11:10 AM #12
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Tons of people are hypocrites myself included. He wants his cake and to eat it too but can't deal with you eating the same piece of cake. And you can't really promise him you won't. When you're going to be with someone phsyically to fill this void haw can you swear you won't? I'll bet feeling develop much faster than you expected. Originally Posted by Baybee
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20-05-10, 12:34 PM #13
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Maybe he's just possessive of you.
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20-05-10, 10:53 PM #14
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Because he's a hypocrite.
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20-05-10, 11:58 PM #15
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I may develop feelings for others but I love my husband too
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