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    Help me spice up our sex life!!!

    Some of you may have read my other post. So now I'm reaching out and trying to get male advice and tips no on how to umm romance my guy I guess. And also looking for some ways to spice up our love life!

    Sex with us is pretty boring and basic .. little foreplay and missionary seems to be the only position we use. Which may be one reason why I'm not to into it anymore. Now, I'm taking the initiative to make sex better and more enjoyable for both of us.

    Any advice/tips/suggestions welcome! ( as long as there not to crazy lol)

    Kris

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    Blindfold and cuffs. simple beginner tools to introduce you to the joys of domination.

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    Next time you guys are non-chalontly watching tv on the couch or whatever just start straddling him, kinda tease him slowly and go to town.

    Or wake him up by sneaking under the covers for a bj.

    Sneak in the shower with him next time he's taking a shower.
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    Different positions. Different rooms. Talk about your fantasies together. Watch porn together and act out together what you see on the screen. Send each other erotic emails. Or try role-playing, like I'm the police officer and you're the naughty streetwalker or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by QueenofCorona View Post
    Next time you guys are non-chalontly watching tv on the couch or whatever just start straddling him, kinda tease him slowly and go to town.

    Or wake him up by sneaking under the covers for a bj.

    Sneak in the shower with him next time he's taking a shower.
    I agree with this. Start off simple, then move up form there. Unless ofcourse you like extremes. Since you guys are at the boring phases now, you can jsut walk into the room in full latex gear, and whip in hand and gag in mouth drooling, drop the duffle bag full of assorted dildos, ropes, cuffs, clamps. Get on your knees, chest out, and say "im yours" and see how he reacts.

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    Thanks for the suggestions so far everyone. I don't think we can do the shower stuff tho, our shower is rather small ... we've tried lol. I have a blindfold but can't tie him up as our bed is just a metal frame with no headboard or footboard.

    Keep them comming lol

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    Try something other then missionary. I would not be happy or satisfied if all we did was missionary. That would be the biggest way to spice it up. Especially if you are the one who suggests it.

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    Are you into anal? I enjoyed that with my ex very much, until one day I went too fast and hurt her ... So, if you do it, use lots of lube!

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    You can also initiate other positions too.

    One of the hottest things my girlfriend has done was sat on my lap with just a jacket on (I was in the middle of working on a project), and slowly unzipped her jacket to reveal nothing underneath... then, she propped herself up, unzipped me, pulled my pants down a little, and started diving off me... it was amazing!

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    call his name when his doing you, swallow him, cook for him with just an apron, lay down the table and spread your legs then say "dessert is ready", give him bj when his busy.

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    My wife has installed extrafeelings on her notebook and we both have loads of fun with it. To download this software just google for extrafeelings

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    random full service BJ's with swallowing if you are into that, best thing you can do for him.

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