look at it logically. the concept of dating is a scanning process for all people to find the right one for you, correct? considering this, the One for you will click perfectly with you and you will both naturally adore each other's presence (not presents), unless you both have grown up with a subconcious programming that forces you to make yourselves miserable.
i'm against dating people you've already gone out with.



) and you didn't like that part of him. 9 years later, maybe he stopped being a smart ass or you began to like him. remember there are many many many many many many proportions and properties of people's characteristics that change things--especially over 9 years.
i love you.. i don't wanna be ur x


