so my guy and i have been together for almost a year now and now he's mad at me. It's a little complicated, so stick with me. He's mad because since we've been together i randomly egt phone calls or text messages from guys i either gave my number to long before i ever knew him or guy friends. I've NEVER even had the thought of cheating on him cross my mind, EVER! nonetheless i understand. let me run through the list
-i had a short term thing with a man who was 14 yrs older than me before him, which he knew about since we were just friends at the time. i haven't talked to this person since my guy and i started dating
-talking to a friend from california who moved in with his gf after A long time of not keeping in touch since i didnt want his gf to be jealous(has been before)..we kept distance and talk briefly time to time
-a guy who i gave my number to 2 years ago before i knew my bf, and he is suicidal and i didnt want to be mean. I told him not to call me ever again in front of my bf after he called
-believe it or not, Illusional commenting on my Facebook...he thinks it's crazy that i talk to ppl on forums i guess...
-new years we broke up two days before, long story involving his cousins being VERy rude to me for no reason..and i went to lunch with an old guy friend who happened to be in town at the time and it ended badly...this guy is sick in the head as i found out..dont want to explain..
-and lastly my long time friend who is in the military and recently his gf cheated on him so he decided to confide in me and get some advice. He texted me while i was in bed with my bf and well he obviously was not happy about it even though i showed him the text and it had nothing to do with me..just about how things were going with his ex he wanted to get bak with.
i feel so bad, i know it makes me look terrible but for some reason all these things happen at the worst time and he blames it all on me, he won't listen to anything i say..
i dont't know what to do to convince him i'm not doing anything behind his back!
so how do i make him understand im not ding anything and it's seriously all really bad timing?