Im devasated, been dumped

[Albinoni]

That's disturbing.

Whats disturbing about having a good friend, her Mum even said and made it clear for me that her daughter is also part of me, most of the time (not all) when we went out I would also tell the Mum to bring her daughter so we could go as one happy family and would never leave her out. I was never selfish.

[Albinoni]

I'm sorry. But that's all the more reason to dump you.

As in ? The daughter lived with her Mum.

[Albinoni]

I'm sorry. But that's all the more reason to dump you.

To be honest No, it would of been far worse if I never got along with her daughter at all, I was told be carefull teenages can bust up a relationship.

[vashti]

I think you are trolling.

Or really, really dumb.

[Albinoni]

i am sorry, but how old are you?

I am 44, why does it matter ?

[LailaK]

You buying her daughter sh*t, saying she's your "best friend", and texting her behind the mother's back! DUH! Those are all valid reasons for dumping you.

What grown man is "friends" with a 17 year old.

I would dump you too. Any sane woman would.

[Albinoni]

I think you are trolling.

Or really, really dumb.

Am I really really dumb, well i am an engineer so couldnt be that dumb lol, thx anyway for your info.

[LailaK]

If you don't see the clear reason why you were dumped, yes, you are dumb.

[Indignant]

I think you are trolling.

Or really, really dumb.

that was the first though that came to my mind lol

[Albinoni]

You buying her daughter sh*t, saying she's your "best friend", and texting her behind the mother's back! DUH! Those are all valid reasons for dumping you.

What grown man is "friends" with a 17 year old.

I would dump you too. Any sane woman would.

What sh*t, no you got it wrong, her daughter asked me to buy it for her eg she asked me to buy her itunes card I would get it for her, she asked if I would buy her McDonalds I would get it for her. I didnt simply buy her stuff, I bought her stuff that she asked me to buy.

I use to txt her daughter all the time and it was well and ok with her mum she knew about it, why would I have any interest in her for when her mum was my gf.

Ok so your telling me that if you met a man (and assumed you had a son or daughter) and he said hello and was friends with them is that a sin lol !!!

[Indignant]

What sh*t, no you got it wrong, her daughter asked me to buy it for her eg she asked me to buy her itunes card I would get it for her, she asked if I would buy her McDonalds I would get it for her. I didnt simply buy her stuff, I bought her stuff that she asked me to buy.

I use to txt her daughter all the time and it was well and ok with her mum she knew about it, why would I have any interest in her for when her mum was my gf.

Ok so your telling me that if you met a man (and assumed you had a son or daughter) and he said hello and was friends with them is that a sin lol !!!

society looks down on 44 year old men texting 17 year old girls. lol !!!

[Albinoni]

If you don't see the clear reason why you were dumped, yes, you are dumb.

She said to me she was upset because I went behind her daughters back instead of approaching her about it.

[LailaK]

I'm saying that if my boyfriend developed a "texting/best friends/let me buy you sh*t" relationship with my kid after only 8 months I would dump him. It's strange. Stop trying to convince yourself it's normal because it's not.

In my opinion, no grown man (who isn't related to the kid) has any business texting a child.

[Albinoni]

I'm saying that if my boyfriend developed a "texting/best friends/let me buy you sh*t" relationship with my kid after only 8 months I would dump him. It's strange. Stop trying to convince yourself it's normal because it's not.

In my opinion, no grown man (who isn't related to the kid) has any business texting a child.

Once again you have it wrong, its her that wold ask me to buy her stuff I did not simply go out and buy her stuff, unless she asked me too. he mum knew I was txttng her and was all ok with it, I would txt her and ask her how she was, how was school etc thats all. Like her mum also said to me that she was part of my life as well, if I was cold towards her daughter than it would be a different story.

[Indignant]

44 year old engineer, huh? russian brides have better writing skills