Is there any chance with this woman?

[m1o9o9n0]

Is there any chance with this woman?
Me and my (ex) gf broke up for almost a month now, the break was caused by recent events pulled together. Almost immediately after we broke, a guy who was close friends with her kissed her and told her to be with him, and that he liked her for half a year (i always doubted him). She didn't know how to respond and just went with the flow. Now they're bf/gf etc. I know for a fact that she saw him as a close friend and so didn't cheat on me.


It has been a month, and i know that She is jealous and sad to see that another girl is showing interest in me (Facebook). She said even though she has a new bf and loves him, she loves me and misses me still, it's painful and cries sometimes at night. That it is complicated now and cant be with me, doesn't want me to 'move on' coz she thinks there's a chance still.


I am for certain she is in a rebound relationship and she is very confused at the moment, the guy is trying hard to influence her to try and get me out of the picture, and that we seriously have a chance just that we stuffed up and this guy came in and took advantage of her when she was sad after the break. She even told me that she thinks we have a chance in future. but now its complicated coz of him.

What should i do now? get on her good side or play hard to get? She's confused and that guy is trying to influence.

Any advice would be appreciated!!

[xxazurexx]

I doubt she's with him and because he's brainwashing her mind. Unless she's a cabbage with no mind of her own that is. Nobody can force us to do something or remain in a situation, we may be unhappy in.

If her feelings were strong enough for you to want to return, she would.....end of.

What can you do? Cut her out of your life and if it's too painful to remain her friend. She may not and won't realise what she lost and until you are gone for good.