College Crush..

[clayjr22]

Hello, My name is Clay I am 21 years old I am a college student, and I happen to have a crush on a girl that is in one of my classes.
Ever since the first day of class she has been staring at me and tried to converse with me but she was a bit shy. The following week I saw her in the art studio and we were both by our selves drawing, and she kinda gave me a good vibe, I noticed that she has not done this to any other guy in class.

Little by little we began talking, I did notice that I was nervous a bit, and I also noticed that she was as well when she almost dropped things to the floor. Anyways to make a long story short... She is dating some dude from her hometown and it is a long distance relationship since they don't have time to see each other and it is a 2hrs drive.

I have a feeling that she likes me though, I invited her out to dinner and a movie and when she wanted to pay for everything I payed. The next day I bumped into her in the street and she invited me to her apartment to watch a movie, she also introduced me to her brother (which I think is a good thing).

I also notice that she is always around me in class and by her body language it looks as if she is flirting with me without saying a word by fixing her hair every time I look at her. I also noticed that she has a straight eye contact with me all the time. She invited me to go with her and her brother to a festival this Saturday coming up, but I also invited her to my dorm for Friday night so we could watch a movie together.

How can I flirt with her without getting her uncomfortable? I really like this girl, and I want to see if we could go to the next level. I'm actually taking my time and not trying to rush.

P.s. me and her had a conversation about long distance relationship, and she has told me that since they far apart from each other they both know what could end up happening. I also don't have enough experience with girls and so I don't want to mess this up she is a nice girl, and stands out from the other girls in my school.

[MerryH]

Well, you already took her out on what was clearly "A Date". Unless she's sort of clueless, she knows that you paying for dinner and a movie is more than a friendly get-together. But she has a boyfriend and is still dating around, so that would be a red flag for me. Do you think that if it ever got serious that you might be a little distrustful of her around other guys, since that's how you two hooked up?