My girlfriend of four months broke up with me last thursday telling me I was too possessive (Were both 24). ( I'm working on these issues now.) We had a big fight while on vacation. When we got back, she sent me a text saying she needed some time to think. During this time she wouldn't answer my phone calls. Two days later she sent me this via text: She said "I'm really sorry, baby, but we can't fix this, it is so hard to let you go but it is best for both of us. She also texted that she couldn't talk to me because hearing my voice would make her break down and that she didn't want me to call. I texted her back saying let us give it another go and I'll make her happy again. That was the last contact we had. We had a really special connection, i know she loves me, and there are things she told me that make me think there is hope. Even in her breakup text she said it was so hard to let me go. She recently told me she didn't know what she'd do without me if we weren't together, and that I was the only person she has ever thought of marrying, and that I'm her soulmate. What do I do now? I am not ready to give this up, just not sure what my next step should be. Should I refrain from contact, as she has requested. or do I show her that I will not give up without a fight. Any ideas of what I should do....wait a couple weeks to contact her? send her a letter pleading my case or maybe just call her in couple weeks and instead of pleading my case just ask how she is doing? We've been together almost 24/7 since we met so would it be better if I wait awhile before I contact her so she starts to miss me? Thanks for the input.