Where to begin? I think instead of revealing every bizarre argument we had, I will offer up this one with a bit of background first:
She's 26, I'm 34. We got together. It was passionate and we were both dead excited. She's never had a relationship that lasted beyond 9 or 10 months. I was with someone for 3 years and was married for one of those years.
About a week in we go out for drinks near my place. We talk about all sorts of things, and then a movie comes up. She's not familiar with it. I try to help her out: 'It's got Eva Mendes in it....you know, the really hot Latin-American lady.'
Her face clouds over a bit. 'Oh, you fancy her, do you?' I laugh at first, and reassure her that she's a movie star, not real!
But she can't let it go. She goes on and on...in the taxi home...still pouting, still picking over my words.
We get near to my flat and I stop her, put my hands on her shoulders and look her in the eye:
'You're going to mess this up.'
She looks confused.'What do you mean?'
'I mean, you can't be this jealous...this insecure. It will do for us. I've been that way myself, and been on the receiving end. I'm really, really chuffed to be with you. Please accept that.'
What did she do? Well, for a second she looked like she understood. And then she carried on...'but you said she's hot' etc etc. I went to sleep a troubled man.
And it's kind of been like that ever since. At this point we are broken up. But I love her and miss her terribly. I know it may seem daft, after all I live in a city with literally a million lovely girls in it, but she is so damn funny and sexy. And she adores me.
She's been treated very shabbily by some of her exes, yet denies it affects her...