I have a big problem

[Kama]

Whenever I make love to my spouse I always think about other women. I will not feel orgasmic until I imagine that other women or my acquaintances are holding my penis.

I feel guilty and think that I am falling off the moral precipice.

I want to ask others whether they too have such feelings or I am the only one who is so much guilts ridden

[smackie9]

Sex does get boring being with the same person. It's only natural to think of other people to get your mojo going.There is nothing unhealthy about running a fantasy through you head during sex. We all do it.

If you want to spice up things in bed try role playing or request a fantasy for her to play out for you, ask her to talk dirty to you, watch some porn together. Of course you are going to need to change it up from time to time.

[Kama]

I love the idea of Orgy but in reality this is not possible and i just want to fantasize and I wonder whether others really do this or nto