Am i just being immature and naive in worrying... ?

[IamTHATguy]

Ok, so maybe this is no big deal and pretty silly me asking, but hey.

I've been seeing this girl now for around 2/3 months, when we meet up it's great, have a top laugh and end up having the odd kiss and stuff.

However, when we first met up, we used to talk and message eachother everyday, without fail. Now 2/3 months on, she doesn't ever really contact me, but when we do meet up she's just the same fun loving person i knew 3 months ago.

I went to her house 2 nights ago, we had a good time again, and i messaged her when i got home asking if she'd like to do something at the weekend, so over 48 hours on and haven't heard a single thing out of her, don't really understand how this works.

[Kaius]

If you don't know, ask her. What's the mystery?
Her phone got lost, she has been busy, she got kidnapped, she don't want to talk to you, she is studying in school, she is sleeping with some guy, she got grounded by her mom,...etc.

[sweetkissesforu]

she is not in2 text messages

[devonbrown]

Communication is really the only way to figure out this situation. You can't read her mind, so you can only go by what she tells you. At this point, she isn't telling you much, except that she enjoys being with you when she is with you. If she wanted to spend more time with you, she would most likely say so. But regardless, if you want to spend more time with her, just talk to her about it.