Apologizing to an ex

[mrman256]

H guys, I posted this on another thread on here but got one response so here goes again.

So I was with this girl for a while and then we broke up. Because we are both in the same class at university we got on top of each other after the breakup and had a few arguments. It did not end well and I haven't talk to her since last year even though we are in the same class. It's pretty awkward.

I would now like to to apologize to her for some of the things I said. I did act like an idiot at times and can see how I have upset her. I would also like to apologize to clear the air a bit and so I can get on in life.

Problem is it was a while ago since these various incidents. I don't want her to look at it than anything else other than an apology like I'm an ex whose trying to get back with her. I feel as if it could open up a can of worms. Also she is with someone else now and she seems happy so I think she may prefer it if I wasn't in the picture at all even if its an apology.

I do still have some feelings for her but looking logically at the situation and our relationship I think if it was better all left behind. I feel like there is some unfinished business with however it is my gut feeling. I think that apologizing would be the right thing to do as it would provide some sort of ending and I can finally move on. I don't want to get sucked back into it again though. I don't really have anything to lose by doing it either.

Any advice?

[smackie9]

Just email her. Just make sure you tell her that you are happy for her and wish her all the best. Then she can do whatever with that.

[Avg.]

^What he said.

Make it short and succinct. And let her know you wish her and your man nothing but good. That says a lot.

[Sonrisa]

^^^what they said

[mrman256]

Cheers guys! I'm still not sure whether I should send it or not I'm not sure if the timings right. Its one of those things that I could see swinging either way its quite a fragile situation. oh well! thanks for the replies!

[IncognitoSir]

Just send the email and move on with it. If she reacts badly, that's on her, don't even sweat it.