Gentlemen.
I'm in a relationship that frankly kicks serious ass. She is brilliant, we've been together for five years and we still act like newlyweds together. It's my intention to spend my life with this woman.
Recently we were separated for 5 days without contact with each other, and my time was abysmal. I was truly miserable. I missed her terribly, wanted to spend time with her, wanted to do things with her that we both enjoy.
But as soon as we got back together again, I started feeling like I wanted to be alone again, or at least doing something else. Now that I've realised that, I realise that that feeling, that little twinge, isn't actually very uncommon in me at all. I feel alot more than I thought I did.
The way it feels is that when I'm with her, I have a tiny inner voice that says, "I'd love to be doing something else" or "I'd love to be alone", and when I'm doing something else or alone, I want to be with her. It's not making sense and the feeling is making me feel really torn to bits, because of how this must be for her.
If you could share your insight, gentlemen, I would appreciate it.