Ok. So i met a girl at school about 7 months ago, who happened to work at the store at which i had just got a job at the time. Thinks were great, we had fun and were laughing and smiling everythime we talked. I learned that she was in a long distance relationship with a guy in missouri, whom she met when she lived in Calgary before they both moved away. They were only friends in Calgary but started the relationship after they had both left.
Just to my luck, i fell in love with her. I cant stop thinking about her, and everytime im with her i feel like im the happiest person in the world. I let a friend of hers in on the secret that i loved emily(the girl). The friend, named Robin, told Emily at work that i loved her, and some of the sweet things that i had said to Robin regarding Emily. Emily said she was flattered, but wanted to stay friends because of three reasons. She liked the guy from missouri alot, she would feel awkward because we are friends, and that i am not confident. She also mentioned to Robin that she wished i had told her myself if i loved her as much as i do, and when Robin asked "So you want him to like you then", she replied no however hesitantly.
I myself feel like i should have been the one to tell emily how ifeel. It has been several months since, and my feelings only continue to grow. People around me tell me i should tell her myself and be totally honest, because i will regret not doing it in the future. But i had worked hard to get the friendship back to comfortable after the rejection, and i fear telling her may ruin it. Should i tell her? help