She lied to me?

[Haded]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about four months now, and have said we loved each other. I for one know that I love her, she is perfect for me in every way and I can act like myself around her completely; we can act weird, funny, and anything together, it is perfect. Well today I went to make a myspace to send her a sweet message, because I do not have a myspace and she does. I go on there and see the "Stream" tab and get curious on what she used to do; I go to the page and she has had many boyfriends and girlfriends in the past (bisexual) and would make new status' about her loving them so much and wanting to be with them forever, she also said that to me. My heart seriously was breaking after reading all these status' about her old boyfriends and girlfriends, and its not just the fact that she said she loved them its the fact that she told me she never loved anyone else before; which is a lie apparently. I don't wanna talk to her about this and seem like a stalker for going on her myspace and looking at this, so what should I do? She pretty much lied to me about loving others, and its breaking my heart right now just knowing she felt this way about so many others.

[curly1118]

Well for one thing just tell her what you told us if you want to confront her about it: That you were making a myspace to send her a sweet message and you came across all this stuff.

As for the status' saying she loved a lot of other people and she wants to be with them forever etc. You gotta think what type of girl will say that about that many people, assuming it's over a certain amount. She's probably insecure and longs for that being "loved" feeling. And then when she realizes that's not really what she wants. She gets the f*** out.

Sounds to me like you're both young. And I can tell you just from experience that women are very fickle. Especially the younger ones. She might say she loves you, but like I said earlier, she might just want that connection for a bit and then leave. If you love her back like she says then you should have no issues talking to her about anything. Hiding things in a relationship sucks and isn't healthy either. If she blows up in your face about it and does call you a stalker then she probably isn't worth your time anyways, man.

Best of luck to you. Hope I helped.

[xxazurexx]

And I can tell you just from experience that women are very fickle. Especially the younger ones.

Sounds like you have poor taste in women.

Have you dated the entire female population on earth and to reach your conclusion that 'all' women are fickle?

No we aren't ALL fickle ...some of don't change our loyalties, affections etc and at the rate we change our underwear!

I hate it when people will generalise.

OP....she is young and "some' young girls can be quite fickle in their ways. You two seem to be on different pages and want different things - you are the 'mature' one in the relationship, she still sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do.

[curly1118]

I'm just talking women around me in general. One's I've worked with to members of my family to girls I've dated in the past.

But it really does sound like she's young and doesn't know what the hell she wants. Not trying to troll here or anything like that and forgive me for my ignorance.

[xxazurexx]

Ok, well it's best to say *some* and when referring to people...as you will get people jump on your back if it comes across like you are meaning ALL..., lol

[curly1118]

You're right. And I'm sorry.