Nomas,
Wow you said it all in a nutshell really, and if that is the right choice for you then its just that the right choice for you in your life. I think its great, and you are right. When you have sex its a big responsibility an abstinence is 100% effective.
wow if i died a virgin though then i guess i died a virgin it would make no difference once you are 6 feet under. life is short but it shouldnt be based on the things you havent done but the things that you are doing and have done i dunno the thought of life being to short...its short when u die from aids or some shit like that.
but then you know i was thinking ok u get married and this dosent nessesarly mean that you are ready for children, ( arent ever fully ready 4 that) theres alot of children from married people that were darned accidents.
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"
People change and forget to tell each other.