Feeling Stuck

[Freekeen]

Hi,

Need some feedback please. My g/f and I were together for 10 years. She dumped me, and I was devastated. After some years apart, we are back together, but I'm not happy. I've always had a problem with her spending more time with her friends than with me, and she also spends way too much time with her job.

I thought that these things were going to change and they haven't, and she said that it's not going to change either, and it's up to me to decide if I am willing ti tolerate the situation or not. I just feel paralyzed, and I don't even know how to come to a decision. She's away at school for two years, and I don't know if it's fair to make a decision without us really being together. The difference between she and I is that I always make time for her, and will drop everything to be/talk with her, and she won't dothe same. She comes home for the summer in a month, and we won't officially be dating until then. Thanks in advance.

[Bo]

Sounds like you are much more invested in this than she is, and she's said she's not changing. So break up OR stop investing so much in this.