Originally Posted by
ShellyZ
There are no rules. Especially not rules as stupid as the 3rd date rule. Honestly, whose bright idea was it to say you HAVE TO have sex by a certain time? Some people (men and women) like to take things slow, and I'm sure they have a million good reasons for it. You're worried because he didn't want to have sex on the 2nd date? Learn some patience. He's probably used to being the one who initiates things and you made him uncomfortable by coming on way too strong. Dial it down a notch and let him take the lead if it makes him more comfortable. Maybe he wants to get to know you a little before he jumps into bed with you (*gasp*).