Gone with our date 5 times already, haven't kissed yet

[SigOne]

I just started going out with this girl, that I met on a dating website, for a month now.

We go out every Friday night where I pay the dinner bill every time. At the end of each night, I always just hug her (no long romantic hug) and say goodbye.

We haven't kissed yet! It's because I'm too shy to make the move

Is this going to annoy the girl? She doesn't really show any signs of wanting to be kissed (her initiating hand holding, play touching, etc) but she likes going out with me.

What should I do...

[bluesummer]

Well, one of you is going to have to do it. I suggest it be you, since many women fear that being the first to make a physical move would send the wrong message.

[MerryH]

Is this going to annoy the girl?

It might make her question how you feel about her. If she convinces herself that you don't like her very much, she'll probably start losing interest in you.

Since she keeps going out with you, you can assume that she likes you and would want to kiss you. On your next date, maybe give her a kiss on the cheek when you greet her, be a bit more touchy-feely and flirtatious, and then at the end of the night or whenever it feels like a good moment, plant one on her.

KISS HER.

[Boisdevie]

Perhaps she likes eating out and somebody else paying the bill? Serious stop being a pussy and kiss her - at least then you will know where you stand.

[jr1960]

Come out of your shell and go for it. After 5 dates if she turns her head away and does not want to kiss back then you will know she might not have feelings for you.
Then you can hand her a Longhorns gift certificate and walk away.

[ShellyZ]

For the love of god, KISS HER. I would be annoyed if I'd gone on 5 dates with a guy and there was still no kiss. I'd start to lose respect for him too. And by the way, you don't have to wait until the end of the date (unless you want to be seen as boring and predictable, that is). Go for a walk with her in the middle of the date, and during this walk, put your arm around her and kiss her.