I have a problem with my girlfriend and family. My family lives thousands of miles away. I see them roughly twice a year usually at Christmas and during the summer. My problem stems from a divide between my girlfriend and family. While they get along and like each other, my girlfriend is upset at the thought of me traveling without her for 5-10 days to visit them. We are going together in a few months, but I haven't seen them now for more than half a year and would like just a week. My parents offered to buy me tickets and when I declined their offer, I could hear the hurt in their voices. I have been trying to plan an August event but my girlfriend seems to be putting-off asking for time off and I'm starting to grow concerned. I really want to visit my folks, but I'm caught between keeping my relationship solid with my girlfriend and my family.
Help!