Long story short, my girlfriend is obsessed with my past. I slept with five girls before I met my girlfriend, none of whom I was in a relationship with. I'm not friends with them anymore, I deleted their phone numbers, and I blocked them on Facebook. It's actually kind of unfortunate because I was somewhat of a friend to one of the girls, but my girlfriend was so increasingly upset about her that I just decided to cease our communication. But whatever. Anything to just keep my girlfriend from being upset.
Unfortunately, this has not helped. She gets upset about these girls constantly, and says she pictures me having sex with them all the time. She insists that she's "just like the rest" and that I see nothing special in her at all. I assure her this is not the case, which is why all these girls were drunken one-night stands and why she is my girlfriend of 7 months. I tell her all the time how special and different everything is with her... But this does little to placate her.
She gets drunk and yells at me for sleeping with these girls. She insults me and asks how I could be so disgusting. If we are with a group of friends and they are brought up (we have mutual friends with one girl in particular), my girlfriend gets extremely upset and the night is over. If we were to ever run into one of them at a party or in public - dear God! We almost ended up at the same club as one of them the other night, and when my girlfriend heard she would be there, she almost had a nervous breakdown. I'm at a complete loss for what to do.
She tells me to just be patient, that it's her own personal issue and that it will go away. So I'm trying. I love my girlfriend dearly and I want her to get over this issue.
I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else has experienced this problem. Will it ever go away? How long from now? Is there anything I can do, besides be patient? I love my girlfriend, but it gets frustrating being yelled at constantly for things that are out of my control. For things I did before I met her. I feel like all I can ever do is apologize... Even though I'm not really sorry, because like I said, I didn't know her at the time.
I'm stumped. Any advice?