dunno what to do

[uoghr3poqh5f3]

hi
i met a girl online around 6 months ago and i booked flights there last week to go over in a couple of months
but say the last few weeks shes been sayin shes freakin out a bit and feels distant
said things like we dont have anything to talk about sometimes
she still tells me nice things like shes in love
but after that bad spell its left me a lil worried i dont wanna end up in a strange city on my own like
she also doesnt talk half as much as we used to
says she has college work and is lookin for a job
i suppose do you lot reckon this is doomed before it even starts
cause shes been pretty cold sometimes
and it makes me clingy in a wierd way like
im not at all like
but for some reason i like this girl way too much to have not even met
and i think im worrying her i dunno
and advice would be great

[Ugly_Idiot]

I'd cancel the flight tickets, or find another girl in that area

Sounds like she's lost interest mate to me.

[uoghr3poqh5f3]

yeah i know
thinkin the same myself
just wanted to get a few opinions

[smackie9]

Now that the love fog has lifted, you are slapped with the reality of what is truly involved when having an LDR. Some would rather just enjoy the thrill of what a LDR brings because most of it is fantasy, and an active use of the imagination.....that's why so many think it's the perfect relationship. But like any relationship it needs to go to the next level in order for it to continue or interest will be lost.

You are best to date locally and be done with it.

[uoghr3poqh5f3]

yeah so pretty much al lround opinions is theres no use in tryin to sort it out