I'd tell him exactly what she told you and what you know. She denies to you, Lamb that anything is going on and that they are just forum friends who are a little flirty. Then I'd tell her hubby that that's all you know and that if he has evidence of anything more than innocent then it is his responsibility to go to his wife and get it worked out one way or the other. Keep your personal opinions to yourself and don't give either of them your support in this. It's between them how they resolve this and they'll do it easier without either of them having your bias.
This is not like ratting her out... He's told you he discovered their inapportiate (IMO) behaviour on his own. Keep it neutral.
Tell me, why do you need her husband to be 'really good to you?' Shouldn't that read "they've" been real good to me?
Frankly it sounds like the whole lot of you are playing with relationship destroying fire.
Last edited by Wakeup; 26-06-11 at 01:21 AM.
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