So I came across this girls profile on Facebook and added her as a friend. I've seen her around once or twice, as she is friends with acquaintance of mine. We have never really met, however, I know she is single. Well anyway... the question is should I send her a message or not? and If so, what should I say? I've gotten conflicting advice so far so I'm curious what everyone here has to say.
Oddly enough, I found out a few years ago she used to work where like 5 of my good friends work now, so I could go with the whole 'we met a long time ago how have you been' approach... but I'd rather not. The other advice I've gotten is wait for her to post something on FB that I can comment on or ask her about... hasn't happened yet. So is there anything wrong with just reaching out to her in a random FB message? I'm just not sure what to say???
Thanks for your help.
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29-06-11, 03:46 AM #1
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To Message or Not To Message?
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29-06-11, 03:50 AM #2
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why not go into where she works and talk to her there?
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29-06-11, 03:53 AM #3
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she worked there a few years back, she doesnt work there anymore... but my friends have been working there the entire time. Otherwise I would
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29-06-11, 03:54 AM #4
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Just send her a message if you're not going to see her soon, in person.
Commenting on someones status to get them to notice you is not only lame, it's not going to work.
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I agree... I'd rather just send a message... Keep it simple with "hey how are you?" or is that weird?
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29-06-11, 04:39 AM #6
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she doesnt really know you.. something like. Hey ive seen you around and would like to learn more about you...
Honestly I have no freakin idea..
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