how hard do you have to look if you want to find a good relatinoship?

[mrund3rd09]

I'm 20, and I still haven't had my first relationship. It's time for me to start looking and get some practice in. Can people give me some good advice on how to find a girl to be with?

[DannyH]

Best bet is to just start dating people that your attracted to. Then from there after a few failed relationships you can see personalities and quirks you can deal with and what you can't deal with. It's better to find that stuff out earlier in life then later. Honestly though it's alot easier then you realize once you put yourself out there. Oh and just because somebody says no to a date it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you there is a whole crap ton of reasons why people say no to a date that have nothing to do with who you are as a person.

[mrund3rd09]

this relates to one of my earlier posts. maybe I should make some more girl friends so I can understand girls more. not only that, increase my chances of meeting someone

[DannyH]

aah I have a tendency to forget some post's. Your right on that and so glad you said understand girls more instead of just understand girls because I doubt anybody can understand women 100% of the time... including women lol

[mrund3rd09]

such interesting specimen, these women of which you speak.

sorry. I'm pulling allnighter for a class final in... 5 hours. I'm a little loopy when my brain turns into swiss cheese

[devonbrown]

Why are you on here when you should be studying? Girls won't go for you if you don't pass your classes!

[kageri]

That depends on how good you are finding quality relationships. You could put in a whole lot of effort just to gain a bunch of bad relationships or you could put in little effort but find a really good relationship. It's all luck and how good you are at choosing partners.