Okay so if you have read my other posts.... well i'm getting really frustrated!! my ex keeps coming back and saying how much he needs me and that he is so unhappy without me, i did no contact for awhile and it always works, but after all the things he has done, i always tell him he needs to win me back, he said he would fight to be the right guy and win me back, but than within two days he is distant and cold, i know a lot of people are gonna tell me to just leave him, but thats not what i want, i actually do want him back, idk why he suddenly changes but i do know that he seems to be telling the truth when he comes back and says he loves and misses me and cant do it without me so i dont get what changes but more importantly i need advice on how to prevent that from happening, maybe keep no contact for longer?.... maybe fight for him a little too? i have no clue and could use guy's help. i really truly want us to work and its so frustrating because i know we can make it work, i just dont know how to get past this hurldle! helppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!