Originally Posted by
mkersen
" If you really want me gone for good just tell me now and I will pay you back what I owe you and leave" she doesn't give a yes or no she just completely avoids the question entirely
Why should she tell you anything? She doesn't owe you a thing, especially not an explanation. You are a cheater, she has moved on. If you want to embarrass yourself by asking her these lame questions, carry on. I wouldn't stop you either if I were her, just laugh at you for being such an oblivious ass. Pay her back what you owe and get out of her life, asap. You shouldn't have to ask a question like this, you're just grasping at some last desperate chance to control a situation that has left you in her dust. LOL.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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