hi all, i am in a bad place right now. i have been w my girlfriend for a little over a year. i love her a lot and she does me. last night we were watching tv and she picked up my phone and opened up my texting application. she just scrolled through it without opening any message, in front of me.
i dont care that she did that, i have nothing to hide. we share email passwords etc so no big deal. for some reason though i got the urge to do the same thing. i was messing with her phone and opened her texting app and scrolled through a bit, not opening any message. i all of a sudden felt intense guilt....why did i just do that? i trust her completely, there's no point of me going through her texts. even though i didnt open any of them, i felt guilty just opening the texting screen, i put the phone down as soon as a released what i was doing was stupid, absolutely stupid.....i have cried a lot over it, feeling like i betrayed her and her trust....i love her so much.
should i tell her i just quickly browsed her texting app? if so how? i dont know if i should, i know she opened mine but that was in front of me, i didnt care....i feel like i betrayed her by even having the desire to look.....again i trust her with all my heart and i feel soooooo guilty over it. is that considered snooping? should i tell her?
i know i will never do that again...the lesson i learned through all this guilt will be with me forever....on a side note i didnt find anything nor was a looking for anything specific, i dunno why i decided to open her texting app without her looking, behind her back. i feel awful and i dont know what to do....tell her and risk her maybe getting upset and leaving me or live with this guilt?
am i blowing this out of proportion? please respond...im devastated.