Hey.

I had my birthday recently. There's been an ex who had dated me three years back. Now she's doing medicine from a far away place(way other end of the nation). She's in the town. last year, after wishing me birthday, i called her up on the anniversary(as she wud say), and found her behaving rude unexpectedly(maybe personal matters). Well, i decided to cut her to size, and didn't wish her at her birthday(which was just 10 days later). More three months later, i called her up and started talking again.

Again early this year, we had a moderate fight. I visited her city for a few hours, but i din't tell her. This time on my birthday, she texted me "hey hi how are you" three days before my b'day, which i wasn't able to see(had screened her number after the fight).Saw the message the night before the b'day night(when 12:30am is my b'day), replied "am good, wbu" and then saw that she had sent the msg 3 days back. Moreover, she didn't reply.

She called up on my b'day night, she called me up. She was bout to have dinner, so she called again later which i cudnt attend. I later called her up, chatted for 37minutes about all the ill in my life(was feeling low, had viral fever, so all the demoralized stuff came out). Anyways, she said she felt sleepy, so i called it a day(before she cud say, i had heard her yawning).

Next day, i called her at 3in the afternoon - the phone was busy. Later when she gave me a missed(which was around 10 mins after my call), i was sleeping. I again called at 5(i had woke up by then) , found her number busy, hung the call, got a callback to find she had she had visited a computer market half hour from my place. She had just entered her place while talking, so i told her i'll talk later. She had also said that she'll talk to me in 5 minutes. Since then, i din't recieve a callback from her.

Then, on friday, i texted her if she was free. But no reply since then.

One thing. After adding me on fb, she's started to shrek away, kinda acting "hard to get" in senses. On hearing this, a pal of mine said that she's just doing antics and wants my attention, whereas i say she's trying to attack my self-esteem. Don't know whose right. She is my ex at the moment, and we did have a fight, maybe its some kind of revenge on me.

Also, i met her online the day before yesterday. Just as she found me online, she popped the chat box. Here's the conversation

She : Hi
me: Hi
She: How'r u (she know i was running fever on my viral b'day)
me: better
she: kk, nice
me(after sumtime):wbu
she:i'm okay, have an eye infection though
me: how
she: dont know,my eye is just suseptible to infection, and then i think i put too much liner and all and rubbing and heat blah blah
me(after sometime): okay. how sore
she: sore?
me: wrong 1. Pal's got sore scene
she: hmmm
me: umm
(after sometime) since when have u

I Called her today in the morning around 10. She disconnected it, then called after 5mins. We had a chat for 3 and a half minutes, after which i kept the phone down saying i'll talk later. The first thing she then said was "i'm going on the 11th". Does she want to meet, or just saying for giving a good "non-selfish" impression ofherself?
I called up later at 1 in the afternoon, she didn't pick up the phone then. After that, i did find that her fb profile had some activity.

Seems to me is that she's playing along. But doesnt make any senses when she herself approaches on fb and talks. Don't know am i thinking right or wrong?

Now comes my question. I want to meet her this time. She had hinted some early this year when she came in may the last time, but cuz of issues i decided not to. She's not asked me to arrange some meeting or sorts, but did tell me she's in town when she added me on fb(after the fight, i had deleted her off fb). Shud i ask her out, forget about all this, or wait for her to request so

Btw guys, need quick response, have only two days .e thurs & fri, when i can meet (thursday is the 'anniversary').