How to move on......

[stellaA]

I was in a relationship for 5 years, friends for 3 years before that. We got on great and moved in together for a year. My partner then had to go into hospital for a couple of weeks, he then had to move back home and live with his mum. He decided he needed a break from us as he couldn't give me what I wanted at the moment. I was/am heartbroken. We then had nc for about 4 weeks, I bumped into him and we decided to go for a drink. I thought J would be ok but I still felt the same. We then spoke on the phoe and he told me we could not get bk together at the moment. I now have to accept it is over which is so hard.

[JAY76]

he told me we could not get bk together at the moment.

time is all you need if its ment to be its ment to be, see what happens in time, i wouldn't sit around wondering what if, you carnt put you life on hold and wait for that other person to be ready its just not fair. go out enjoy yourself and take your mind of things, trust me i been there and done that!

[stellaA]

Thanks JAY76, I know, at the beginnig I hung around for him, waiting for the text, the calls, anything...my life stopped! Now I am starting to do things for myself and trying to make myself stronger again! They say you become stronger because of it! I hoep I will find happiness again one day, if I'm honest I don't think it will be with my ex but who knows! I am quite happy thinking about myself at the moment! What happened with you?