Im in my first relationship, but I'm having a few problems so was hoping i could get advice from people with more experience.
My partner is the first woman i had been with, i was very shy previous to this. she has slept around with a lot of people in the past in the high 20's she says this was because she had low self confidence and i think part of it is also because she was sexually assaulted when she was young and was also adopted and went looking for love in the wrong way.
this doesn't bother me so much any more what bothers me is that she still speaks to a lot of the people she slept around with and also some of her ex's this i find very very hard to live with. I don't think she would ever cheat on me but still the thought of her chatting with these people and the thought that there is probably still chemistry between makes me want a run a mile.
I was wondering if people thought i was just being pathetic or whether what she is doing is insensitive to me. If its happened to you how did you deal with it.
many thanks