We are in our mid 20's, have been dating a year and some change, and I'm SERIOUSLY missing how things were at the beginnging. He used to compliment me SO much, I would always blush, he would come on to me.. We would be kissing and he would stop to tell me how gorgeous I was.. Things like this.
Recently, I've tried sending dirty pictures throught the day and I get back.. hehe nice. I will write up this long dirty text about the things I want to do to him, and then not hear back for hours, and then we are off work and at home, and that's the end of that. I'm trying to do my best to get him SO excited during the day, that he can't wait to come home and take me to the bedroom but nothing is working! I can't even remember the last time he even told me I was pretty, and I spend time getting dolled up for him alot of the time and hear nothing. His excuse: I have to keep you on your toes... If I tell you that all the time, you'll stop believing it. I'm thinking, okay but NEVER???
Last night we had this whole plan, and something really small made it so that we didn't have sex. Today, I'm feeling depressed, and sort of angry. Actually, I feel like writing what happened because it was so stupid. We planned to have sex that night. Our roommates have been sleeping in the livingroom the last 2 nights because their mom was visiting and they gave her their room. Sometimes my daughter falls asleep on the couch watching TV as she did last night, and if we plan to have sex, I will put her to bed after (she shares a room with us for now). It was about 10pm last night when I got out of the shower, and when I was done, my boyfriend comes up saying, well they are going to bed downstairs, so we can't do anything. I said, why? He said, well they are going to bed, we have to bring (my daughter) up here. I said, they are sleeping on the floor, she is on the couch, can't I just get her after we're done? And he gave me this look like, okay whatever, and then walked into the bathroom for a shower. He made me feel like he came upstairs not wanting to at all, and wasn't willing to try and work it out.
I've talked about it with him, nothing. Tried as hard as I can to be sexy and get his attention, sometimes it works but barely. I'm SO OVER feeling like I'm not wanted. And again, its making me a bit angry, and a bit depressed.
What the HELL can I do to make him want me? I know games are never good in a relationship, but I feel a little resentment, and want him to know what it feels like on my end..
I really am coming off angry now, I know, but I'm frustrated. Any advise anyone?
I also feel I need to point out that he is a great man aside from this. We laugh, I trust him, and he does alot for me. I'm head over heels for him.... I just need this to be fixed. Willing to try anything!