I was in the same place as you I tried everything. Then I stopped looking and then in the spring I suddenly had 3 girls all interseted in me. Ok 2 were interested in me the other one had a boyfriend and she was the one that would have been right for me and I did end up going out with one of these girls but thats another story. Now I am single again and just the other day 3 gils came into my life. I only want one of these 3 girls so will try my luck with her. I think what I am saying is that if you try to hard to find a girlfriend you will not find one just be yourself and put yourself out there and hope for the best. Don't let not having a girlfriend upset you to much you should just enjoy life as much as you can. Good luck in finding Miss Right