lost my sex drive

[Cmfd]

me and my gf have been dating for about 6 months. she is extremely attractive and likes to have sex a lot. when we first started dating we would have sex multiple times in the night without a problem

but the last 3 months i have lost my drive. we went from having sex 2-3 times a night a few times a week to about 2-3 times a month, just because i dont push it anymore. i have a VERY difficult time getting hard and staying hard. to fix it i tried not to masturbate or watch porn at all that way when we try im ready for it. but now i realized that i have not had an erection in over 2 weeks, with no drive to masturbate, some drive to have sex but know it will probably end in disappointment so i don't try.

i dont have much experience with relationships, usually sexual flings for a few weeks with no problem. i know i love my gf and plan on spending the rest of my life with her, but im afraid to admit that im no longer sexually interested in her. before it was a challenge and i had to work for it, something to learn and see how she reacts to different things. but i hate to say it but i wonder if i have the "been there done that" feeling. i know that not being able to get an erection obviously bothers her. she described it as not being able to get her wet with no matter what i try.

physically the only issue i have is that i work 2 jobs that together i get 60 hours a week, and sleep 4-6 hours a night and am generally tired. when we first started dating i had just one job at 25 hours a week. if this is the problem what do i tell her? no more sex untill i dont have a second job? which i dont see happening for a while

[bulrush]

Without your age I can't help much.

But your 60 hour work weeks, and less sleep than you need, are certainly part of the problem. One part of the problem is stress.

[Cmfd]

I'm 21. Sorry I forgot to mention that