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    Is this normal?

    Hey,

    I am a very inexperienced woman (25 years old), but I decided to take a risk on a man. Anyway, I asked him out for coffee and he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship but he thought I was really nice. anyway, instead of dating he offered me a **** buddy relationship instead. Is it normal for a guy to ask for a physical relationship because he doesn't want an emotional one? It made me feel cheap thinking I was good enough for my body but not good enough to know.

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    Stay far away from that unless you are interested in that kind of thing. It sounds like he's not interested at all in your personality.

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    Yes it is normal, well not unusual, and according to some guys we are supposed to find it flattering that they want our bodies but don't respect our minds.
    'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaidenMinx View Post
    according to some guys we are supposed to find it flattering that they want our bodies but don't respect our minds.
    LOL, brilliant Minx.
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    Yes it's normal. At least he's been honest from the start but if you like him then this sort of relationship will just knock your confidence so I would say find somebody else.

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    Find somebody else. You deserve a better man.
    He is just some punk who is afraid of commitment.

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    There are some guys that are like that. And actually, there are some women that are like that as well. But if you are interested in something more than that, then don't waste another second thinking about him or his stupid suggestion.

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    let him go, a good chance he has a GF and would take the bate to hump only. Find another one.

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