mom/time/kids (question)

[oldskool83]

I've been thinking it might be in my best interest to stop talking to someone I met begining of the month. She is 30 and has children which that does not bother me. I basicly do not want to wait around, as much as I enjoy talking to her seems it just a choor to see her. I don't receive any excuse, but I don't need a text buddy. Not sure if I should bring this
up since its early and might not even be worth my breath.

I do remeber saying lets go do somthing last friday and I was told I will let you know, normaly with me if some one can't let me know in a few days I am not asking again. Why should I? Until someone says they want to spend their time with me I am not stoping talking and meeting new ones. I am 28 old nuff to see and know what I want.

Id like a womens take on what I've said, my gut says just let it go. Does anyone agree or have other thoughts I am not thinking bout.

[smackie9]

Let it go because in reality you do have your own expectations and already are not being met. Trying to date someone who already has kids, brings issues into a relationship and as you pointed out, time is one of them. Other things like the level of what importance you are to them, being accepted by their kids, dealing with their relationship with the ex, money.....and later, living together, disiplining the kids,.....all these this will arise and will make it too challenging. Your best bet is to be picky, see the signs up front, acknowledge that there will be issues,......yes do yourself a favor and walk away from this one.

[oldskool83]

I still feel the same after posting this and not thinking about it for half the day. Shes not right for me in my gut i know it, ill never see her and might as well be single then try with her.