Is there any chance?

[Bancho]

I'm 20 years old and not really interested in girls my age. The women that I'm attracted to usually are in there 30's-40's. I don't know specifics, but thats what I think they are. Most of these women don't take me seriously because of my age. Is there any chance of being in a relationship with a women like that?

[Saya]

Anything is possible. Some may likes really younger guy.

[bulrush]

It depends. I don't know you as a person, but as a group, guys your age are not very mature, and recent generations of Americans are especially immature and unreliable. (I blame the parents raised in the affluent 1980s.) They might want a fling with you, but not something serious. You have to really work hard to show you are serious about a relationship, instead of just a fling.

I'm in my early 40s and I'm having more fun dating now than I ever did. The women my age seem to be more confident, and really know what they want. And all I ever wanted was a confident woman.

[sadie_genie]

Most women in their 30s-40s are looking for a man to marry. Do you have a house, a car, a good career set up?