Has anyone felt like this before ??

[lexsgirl23]

i have been feeling a little "insecure" about my relationship, & i need it to stop.
when me and my boyfriend hang out, i sometimes get the vibe he doesn't want me there and i start to act really distant. I have no idea why i even do this but we both started noticing it recently. I love this man, with all my heart, more than i ever loved anyone.
When we get comfy to watch a movie, i find myself sitting or lying far away from him...never fails. I always want to be close to him, but he never asks me to, or makes the notion to do it first. We have been together for 11 months now and it's still weird at times.
i feel like he don't care sometimes.. and he don't want to be close. he don't want to cuddle when we go to bed. do you think it's because i'm acting distant? ..

[smackie9]

You need to be more independent, change you looks....not drastic but like wear your hair up, wear sexier tops from time to time, get new interests that you can do without him, and go out with other couples doing something different. Having a life outside the relationship keeps things fresh too. Stop finding yourselves sitting in front of the tv...zzzzzzzzz boring!

[Bella1]

I also feel is to stop.

[Dry Spell1]

much appreciated

[searock]

Maybe he's just not a touchy-feely type of person. Does he show his love for you in any way?

[Kairelly1]

Thanks for sharing.