Into relationship with a close friends divorced wife

[sickened]

We are in love. She was the wife of one of my very close friends.They divorced a month back. Is it correct for us to be in this relationship.

[EWRFan]

If you are willing to lose a friend. Friends will never understand this, trust me.

I was once in a relationship with a friend's ex. I ran into her once in a restaurant, we talked, had fun and agreed to go out again. I felt bad and told my friend and he said that it was ok because she didnt mean anything anymore. I dated her for about 6 months and during that time I never even saw my friend, he always found excuses not to hang out with me. In the end I stopped that relationship because it was hurting my friend and also because the rest of our friends looked at me like a traitor.

[vashti]

You can't have your friend and his (recent!) ex wife.

Be careful about letting your friend go though; she just got out of a marriage, which makes you the rebound guy. You probably won't last with her.

(As I think about it, you probably already lost your friend, just based on the inappropriate attachment you have to his wife.)

[smackie9]

We are in love. She was the wife of one of my very close friends.They divorced a month back. Is it correct for us to be in this relationship.

You are in love and she is just obsessed because you are something new. You are a rebound so like the other say nothing good will ever come out of this. But I'm sure our words will fall on deaf ears anyways. I don't know why you are here....looking for someone to blow smoke up your ass and sugarcoat this for you? Not going to happen. YOU know this is not a kool situation.

[Jason960]

Thanks for your post