question and advice for my relationship. Please help

[mvosu1]

Here is the deal. I am dating a very outgoing and attractive girl. She swears she loves me "more than anything" and would never hurt me. We have a wedding this weekend and she is a bridesmaid and I am her date. When she gets drunk she gets very friendly and flirtly but has never crossed any line. She has a friend coming in from DC and travelling with us to this wedding and she says he has a hot body and she is excited for him to come. Last week she texted him "you'll look hot in your suit." Question is should I worry about her in general with other guys? Or am I being insecure? I've never shown my doubts to her.

[Boisdevie]

At the very least she is insensitive. She might think that he has a hot body but to say that to you or in front of you is stupid. But how do you know that she said he'd look hot in his suit - she either showed you the text or you've been snooping. We need more information

[mvosu1]

I saw it in her phone and only and honestly becuase I grabbed her phone with mine to bring it in the house and it was the first text at the top. I did not go digging

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Don't show your doubts to her. Just be ready to go mingle and dance with other women. If you're uncomfortable with how she acts with her friend, treat the wedding like you're single and go after other women like you really want to hook up with them. Don't mention that you're there with your girlfriend or that you even have a girlfriend. Don't cross the line, but dance really close and try to entice them into more. Treat it like a real pursuit and try to get their numbers. She needs to see that her short term actions can have immediate, long term repercussions.

I don't know how long you've been together, but when I date girls like this, I don't stop seeing other girls unless their behavior changes. You can try talking to her, but I doubt it will change anything. Only thing that seems to work is keeping other girls around, or at least the threat of it.

[rgonz124]

Think about this... would you ever start texting with a friend (girl), exchange pictures or something.. and tell her "hey you look hot in that dress!"???

I think every couple makes their own rules, but at the end of the day, everybody follows the same old ones... I thinks what she is doing its out of line.

If I were you, I'll talk to her just to the fact that you guys are already dating and want something more serious, If you dont talk with her RIGHT NOW, she'll be doing that forever. So just be honest with her and tell her that you feel uncomfortable by that situation. She is being way to friendly, but dont judge her until you guys have the talk. (please if you get uncomfortable everytime she gets drunk let her know, she can change some things to make you happy and make the relationship work, but you cant change EVERYTHING of her)